BUSINESSMAN Francis Muchemwa, popularly, Commander II is on the verge of being single as his wife, who is tired of his alleged violent behavior, has asked the court to end their 10-year marriage.
Totiwe Tembo had told the Lusaka High Court that she cannot stand Mr Muchemwa’s unreasonable behaviour which includes threats to kill her and also accuses her of being a prostitute.
She says his spouse has not only treated to kill her but also adds that he will thereafter commit suicide too.
“He has been issuing murder threats stating that he will later commit suicide as he has nothing to lose,” Ms Tembo.
She submits that because of this behavior, she left the matrimonial home May last year and now stays in Woodlands.
Ms Tembo says in the divorce petition that the Lusaka High Court should grant her divorce and allow her keep the couple’s two children
The document indicates that the couple got married on January 12, 2013 and lived together in Silverest at her husband’s house.
Ms Tembo, a customer service representative at Zesco submits that the couple has two children while Mr Muchemwa has two other children aged 15 and 14.
She however submits that the couple’s marriage has irretrievably broken down because of her husband’s unreasonable behaviour.
“The petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to reconcile with the respondent, and further continue be in marriage with the respondent,” the document reads.
Ms Tembo says her husband has been abusive to her and calls her belittling names such as prostitute.
The man reporter blames, and criticizes everything the petitioner does to the extent of controlling her even on her normal duties as the woman of the house such as domestic chores
Ms Tembo, who had once been suicidal and sort counselling, says the defendant has been verbally and mentally torturing her.
“The home environment has been toxic which has created constant feelings of internal unease and anxiety on the petitioner which at some point made her start having suicidal thoughts until,” she submits.
Mr Muchemwa has been accused of lacking respect, love and affection towards his wife as he has allegedly been shouting and ridiculing her in the presence of relatives.
Not too long ago, the couple had a marital dispute at their then matrimonial home, Mr Muchemwa verbally abused and beat up the petitioner in front of her elder brother and domestic workers.
Ms Tembo say the ordeal left her in pain and she felt embarrassed and disgraced, although she did not report the incident to the police.
She submits that last month, July 15, the defendant followed her to her house and beat her up after an altercation despite having secretly move to the location for fear of being traced by the violent man.
Ms Tembo says her husband’s behaviour affects the petitioner negatively and it’s proving to be dangerous to her general welfare.
(Mwebantu, Wednesday, 16th August, 2023)